Awareness and education are the most effective and meaningful ways to prevent rape. The number of forcible rapes will decrease only when women realize that rape can happen to them and when men understand what constitutes rape. The assailant may view the lack of awareness on the part of the victim as inviting, coercive behavior. (Only two out of ten rapes are reported).
We want to establish a complete and meaningful rape awareness program by utilizing female officers; caring for rape victims; providing counseling services for victims; providing additional training for investigators; emphasizing community involvement through the Campus Watch, providing escorts; and offering guidelines for self-protection.
Remember - in the following safety guidelines, the main emphasis is focused on the concept of "divert and flee," and stressing the importance of common sense.
Acquaintance Rape
Acquaintance rape is forced sexual intercourse by someone the victim knows. The perpetrator gains the victim's trust, then violates the victim's personal space (i.e. a hand on thigh, a hug, a kiss). If the victim does not react negatively and does not sense potential danger, the victim may be viewed as an "easy" target.
The couple end up in a secluded place, usually with loud music and alcohol then the perpetrator rapes the victim.
Warning Signals
Be aware of men who force you to use intoxicating substances.Be aware of men who ignore your requests, and don't listen to you when you talk.
Don't trust acquaintances too quickly.
As soon as you sense an uncomfortable or dangerous situation, get to a safe place.
Preventive MeasuresEstablish good communication in relationships. Use alcohol responsibly. Do not leave your drinks unattended.
Be assertive. Say NO when you mean NO.
Be aware of your non-verbal signals.
Respect others' rights. If yours are violated, state your objection.
Trust your instincts and look for the warning signals.
Understand that someone you admire may force you to have sex with him.
Be prepared to defend yourself.
Ways to Avoid Rape in Social Situation
Do not accept a ride from someone you have just met, no matter how nice he may seem.Sex-role stereotypes of passivity, submissiveness and coyness are dangerous and can create a climate for sexual aggression.
Believe in your right to express your feelings and learn to do so assertively.
Introduce the person you are leaving with to a friend.Double date or "Dutch" date.
Take an active part in controlling and making decisions during the date.
